In class we've discussed the stereotypes we carry inside. I think a lot of us grew up hearing and believing a lot of these stereotypes and whether we openly admit to it or not, we too are of that group who categorize and stereotype.
I come from a Hispanic family. In my family there were plenty of racial comments said and stereotypes believed. The biggest of the issues was to never date anyone outside our culture or skin color. Cuban or cuban American was accepted. Did I ever listen? No. My grandmother couldn't practice what she preached (she had my aunt whose father is mulato) Neither did my mother or her brother. Both dated mulatos and my cousin is actually half mulato cuban.I dated a mulato myself, he was Dominican.
I remember when I was younger, whenever my mom drove by downtown or any rural area that seemed to be ghetto she made it a point to lock the doors. Granted, I grew up around the little havana area. More around Miami high to be exact. It wasn't the best of neighborhoods. The scariest incident I can remember happening to me and my mother in that neighborhood was getting robbed. One night when I was walking home with my grandmother and mother in hand, a black male who came from behind us, jumped my grandmother and stole her purse. My mom chased after him but never caught him. Our rent money was in that purse and now in his possession. It was a loss for us and a tough time. It was scary and did make me afraid of black people growing up. But it wasn't all blacks. Just the ones who look mean. Again, another stereotype.
I will admit and I am completely guilty of stereotyping. I judge people from the second I meet them. I really believe in first impressions. Our image is the first thing people see. The way we carry ourselves makes lasting impressions everywhere we go. What we put out is what we want others to immediately see. If you don't want it seen, then don't display it. But our first impressions can bite us in the ass. There have been plenty of times where I have judged someone and assumed they were a certain way and they turned out to be the complete opposite.
Here are some stereotypes I can think of that I have heard from my fam. thus far:
-Cuban men are possesive, jealous male chauvinist who think women have to do it all.
-Indians (from central America) are stupid. Puerto Ricans fall into this category too.
-Women should take care of their man. (cook, clean, feed, nurture them)
-Cubans are loud and ignorant
-Blacks like fried chicken, cool aid, and grape juice
-Jews own business
-Jews all have big noses(someone asked me where I was from? his answer : Jewish)
-Jews are cheap
-Asians have small penis, are smart and good with numbers. Usually turn out to be scientists or docs.
-"once you go black you never go back"
-All italians are mob related and guiddos
-French people don't shower or shave (heard that ladies, HAIR IS HOT)
-Haitian men are dominating
-Arabs drive taxi cabs
-Indians own quicki marts and gas stations
-Russians are drunks
.........okay, so now that we've heard some of them, which ones do we believe are true?
When we did the staffing exercise, a lot of us put the Asian for the financial job. I do believe that Asians are smart. The reason for it? Whenever I pickup a prescription from my Walgreen pharmacy the attendant is Asian. In school, a lot of the people I see wearing the white coats are Asian. I think that these stereotypes are true to some degree. At some point I believe we have encountered one of the above stereotypes.
I think this class will be very interesting and fun to hear everyone's different opinions!
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